Megan Meier MySpace Suicide: Prosecutors Question Drew's Employee

Prosecutors in Los Angeles questioned Lori Drew's employee, Ashley Grill, before a Grand Jury over the Megan Meier MySpace suicide case. Grill, who was 17 when Megan Meier committed suicide in October of 2006, testified that she did not act alone in setting up a fake MySpace account used to pull a hoax on the 13-year-old Megan. Grill's testimony could begin to peel away the fake facade of innocence maintained by Lori Drew through her attorneys.

Grills, who attempted to take her own life after Megan ended hers, stated that while she was responsible for setting up the profile of the fake 16-year-old boy named "Josh Evans", that Lori Drew and her daughter were also involved in the cruel online hoax.

Megan and her family lived just a few doors down from the Drews in a quiet suburb of St. Louis where the two girls were friends since elementary school. When the girls reached the 7th grade the relationship had become on-again, off-again, with Megan transitioning to a new school. Megan had asked her parents if she could open a MySpace account, after all, all the other kids were doing it too. Megan's parents agreed but counseled their daughter to be careful, to be wary of the people she met online. Megan met a boy on MySpace who said his name was Josh Evans, he was 16 and he lived in her area.

Megan's parents warned her to be careful but the online relationship with Josh seemed harmless and made Megan happy. Megan, like many girls her age, was insecure and unable to see her own unique qualities that made her special. After a period of about six weeks the relationship with Josh took a sharp turn with Josh telling Megan that "she was mean to her friends".

On October 16th, Megan went to school with invitations to her upcoming 14th birthday party. She had picked out a new dress and when she returned home from school she asked her mother to log onto the computer so Megan could see if Josh had posted any new messages to her. Megan wanted to know why Josh had been "so mean" to her.

Tina logged on but had to leave to take her other daughter to an appointment. Before she left she could see that Megan was still upset, evidently Josh's newest messages troubled Megan. Tina, in a hurry to get to the orthodontist's appointment told Megan to sign off.

"I will Mom," Megan told her. "Let me finish up."

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Texas Takes a Stand Against MySpace

Texas is the last state standing, refusing to sign an agreement with Myspace.com in regards to protecting children from online predators and cyberbullies.

Texas Attorney General Greg Abbott stated in a letter to Chris DeWolfe, Chief Executive Officer of MySpace, his reasons for Texas' refusal to sign.

"We are concerned that signing would be misperceived as an endorsement of the inadequate safety measures contained therein," Abbott said in his two-page letter. "Doing so would give Texas parents and their children a false sense of security."

From Digital Trends:

Social networking powerhouse MySpace has reached an agreement with 49 states' attorneys general to implement a wide range of online safety principles designed to enhance the safety of minors using the site. Among other changes, MySpace will set up a registry that parents can use to prohibit their children from setting up an online profile, and will change the default privacy setting for profiles of 16 and 17 year-olds on the service from "public" to "private," so they can only be contacted by people they know. MySpace and the states are also hoping their Joint Statement on Key Principles of Social Networking Sites Safety will be adopted as a standard by the wider social networking industry.

Abbott's letter to MySpace stated he hoped his office and MySpace will continue negotiations and that they will be able to reach an agreement.

Abbott contends that MySpace's new proposals fail in one key area, that of age verification from potential MySpace users. The case of Megan Meiers highlights this problem.

Megan, a young teenager from Missouri, thought she had met a 16-year-old boy named Josh on MySpace. After several weeks of online chatting, the tone of the relationship changed when "Josh" became abusive towards Megan.

On Monday, October 16, 2006, Megan signed on to her MySpace account. When her mother called her from a dentist's appointment, Megan was in tears.

"They are posting bulletins about me." A bulletin is like a survey. "Megan Meier is a slut. Megan Meier is fat."

Megan committed suicide that day, hanging herself in her closet. The quiet tranquility of the neighborhood was shattered by Megan's death. It was six weeks later that Megan's family learned that the supposed 16-year-old "Josh" was really a middle-aged woman who lived four doors down, her daughter, a one time friend of Megan's. DBKP - MySpace Cruel Prank

The Texas Attorney General is committed to prosecuting online sexual predators, his stance is that MySpace's agreement doesn't go far enough, guaranteeing age verification.

We're not sure how any online site would be able to absolutely, positively, verify someone's age. Some sites, such as buying cigars or looking at adult "material," all one has to do is check a box stating they are "over 21." As if this tiny box will protect anyone from an online sexual predator or cyberbully.

The Attorney General's office has a website with tips for parents on protecting your children online: CyberCrimes Unit

The FBI and local St. Charles County Prosecutor in Missouri investigated the Megan Meiers case and decided to not bring any charges against the neighborhood woman. Several cities and towns in the area passed online cyberbully statutes in the wake of Megan's story.

As for Texas and MySpace, the Attorney General makes a valid point. If MySpace is still unable to verify someone's age then online sexual predators will be able to join the popular site, looking to lure young children into relationships.

In the end, parents need to be at the forefront in educating their children on the dangers of being online, of sharing personal info, of allowing strangers to strike up a "friendship."

By LBG
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Source - Lubbock Online
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